Nigeria’s Dating Culture Is Making Marriage Difficult for Me – Whitemoney Opens Up About Life at 35
Former Big Brother Naija winner Hazel Oyeze Onou, better known as Whitemoney, has revealed that Nigeria’s modern dating culture is one of the biggest reasons he has remained unmarried.
The reality TV star admitted that although he is now 35 years old and ready to settle down, finding the right life partner has become increasingly difficult due to what he described as the financial expectations in many relationships.
Whitemoney Says He Is Ready for Marriage
In a recent video shared on his social media page, Whitemoney spoke candidly about his desire to get married, admitting that he is becoming concerned about still being single.
According to him, while he is fully prepared to start a family, meeting someone with the same values has proven to be a challenge.
He explained that he is still waiting for the right woman rather than rushing into a relationship that may not last.
Reality Star Criticizes Nigeria’s Modern Dating Culture
Whitemoney argued that today’s dating scene, particularly in Lagos, places too much emphasis on financial support instead of building meaningful relationships together.
He suggested that many women now prioritize material benefits over genuine partnership, making it harder for people seeking serious commitments to find compatible partners.
Speaking in the video, he said:
“I can’t even lie, I’m getting old. But the dating culture in Nigeria is something else. I need a wife. Where do they find good women?
“A lot of Nigerian girls now, any small thing, billing, especially in Lagos. They don’t care to ask, ‘Can we build?’ It’s difficult to find the right woman nowadays.”
Debate Likely as Fans React
Whitemoney’s comments have already sparked conversations online, with many social media users sharing mixed reactions.
While some agreed with his concerns about the growing financial expectations in relationships, others argued that successful relationships require effort and commitment from both partners rather than placing blame on one gender.
The discussion adds to the ongoing debate about how changing relationship expectations and economic realities are influencing dating and marriage among young Nigerians.
